Psalm 13 - A Psalm of Lament (Disorientation)

by Pastor Paul Dugan

Try entering into lament with this three-part rhythm:

Part 1

Become present to the presence of God:

“Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth. The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.” (Psalm 46:10-11)

Pause in silence before God. Practice breathing slowly and deeply. As you inhale, invite the Holy Spirit to fill every part of your being. As you exhale, release any burdens you are carrying into this time of prayer. Repeat this breathing prayer until you have brought your whole self -‘as is’ -before the presence of God.

Optional prayer of approach: “Lord, I’m watching the clock, as seconds become minutes, become hours, become days, and your silence becomes a chasm I cannot cross. Will this go on forever? Return to me, Lord; lift this curtain of darkness. Breathe life into my eyes and light into my heart…” (Sheltering Mercy, by Ryan Whitaker Smith and Dan Wilt: Psalm 13).

Part 2

Slowly read Psalm 13 (NIV) out loud: (for audio versions click here)

1 How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?

How long will you hide your face from me?

2 How long must I wrestle with my thoughts
    and day after day have sorrow in my heart?
    How long will my enemy triumph over me?

3 Look on me and answer, Lord my God.
    Give light to my eyes, or I will sleep in death,
4 and my enemy will say, “I have overcome him,” and my foes will rejoice when I fall.

5 But I trust in your unfailing love;
    my heart rejoices in your salvation.
6 I will sing the Lord’s praise,
    for he has been good to me.

Reflect on the psalm:

  • How does the psalmist describe his current trouble?

  • Name the range of emotions expressed in this psalm.

  • What honest questions are asked?

  • What are the pleas? What does the psalmist ask for?

  • How does this psalm give voice to the sufferings of Jesus Christ, who himself prays the psalms with us?

Part 3

Pray your own lament psalm- for yourself, or on behalf of someone who is suffering in your world.

  • Describe the trouble in detail to God.

  • Express your honest emotions: "Lord, I am feeling sad about…; "… angry…; “… afraid…

  • Bring him your honest questions: "Lord, why….?; "How long, Lord, before you…?; "Where are you in…?

  • Make your plea to God: "Please, Lord…; "Remember back when you…; Do it again, Lord!”

The psalms were originally written as lyrics, as prayers set to music. Throughout the history of Israel and the church, the people of God have sung the psalms. Song invites us to internalize the Word of God with the whole self- body, mind, imagination, emotions and desires. Take time to listen to a version of Psalm 13 set to music. Try taking the psalm song with you into your day.

From the album Lament Songs (2020) by Porter’s Gate